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No chemistry
| Wed, 06-30-2004 - 12:59pm |
I recently had a date with a guy who seems to know what to want from life, has a good job, good looking etc. BUT i felt no chemistry on our date and got bored too! i believe that one should feel chemistry on a first date, otherwise if you give it time you'll just stay with the guy because you start to like the idea of him, not because you like him. Can someone please give me advice on this! is chemistry important to feel on a first date, and should i give the guy just one more try?
Edited 6/30/2004 1:06 pm ET ET by trixa22776
Edited 6/30/2004 1:06 pm ET ET by trixa22776

I once met a doctor who was studying relationships. She interviewed 1,000 happily married couples. One of the questions she asked them was if they had chemistry when they first met. Eighty eight percent of them said no.
I was going to a therapist once. She was great. She said that if I walked into a room with 100 single men in it and found myself instantly attracted to one, I should turn around and run.
The problem is that sometimes the guy who is reliable, genuine and good is not exciting at first. They do seem boring.
If you really just don't like the guy, don't go out with him again. But you have nothing to lose by giving him another chance.
C