No desire for sex vs. no more love him
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No desire for sex vs. no more love him
| Tue, 04-20-2004 - 4:22pm |
How do you know if the reason you no longer desire sex or physical contact with the person is due to other reasons(such as health) vs because you no longer have feelings for them?
In my relationship that I just ended, I really disliked physical contact. I never wanted to make love, or kiss, or hug even. Sometimes I'd hold hands just to make him happy, or I'd cave in and do what he wanted. But I never felt like getting physical and always sort of brushed away when he tried to kiss me.
This incident lasted for over a year. I never could pinpoint a cause. When we initially started dating it was more passionate, and I enjoyed the contact. But near the last year I didn't want any of it, and it just frustrated both of us. He wanted more contact, I wanted little or none. Eventually we did end it, cause it frustrated both of us.
I tried to get hormones tested and test for depression. but nothing came up.

I mean, if you didn't - who wants someone they don't like, respect, or admire touching them?
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
I like that he likes who I am. Loves me. I'm pretty sure he would never cheat on me.
I dislike how he's sort of lazy with things. Not really a gentlemen(when we go out, i seem to pay more), um sometimes he's a bit selfish with physical contact. He sometimes gives up too easily.
but ya, it's not a clear cut yes or no :(