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No Divorce???
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 1:14pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. I just recently found out that he's still married. He said they've been seperated for 4 years going on 5, but the divorce has not been settled. I've never been married therefore divorced, but my parents are divorced and it didn't take them 4 years to get a divorce. He says he's trying but he never calls his lawyer. I know there's nothing I can do about it, but does this mean that he still wants to be with her?

Erin
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In your case, I think that the fact that you have dated this man for 8 months without him telling you that his is still technically married is the main issue rather than the actual marrital status. Why the secrecy? Also, he says he has been "trying" to get a divorce, but just hasn't called the lawyer? That sounds fishy.
'but does this mean that he still wants to be with her?'
Have you asked him? Does he talk about her a lot either lovingly or with venom? Do they talk a lot?