No heat

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Registered: 02-29-2004
No heat
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Sun, 02-29-2004 - 11:55pm
Dear Relationship Saver,

I'm married since over a year, and have dated my husband seven years before that. We love each other incredibly, but now it's become more of a habit. There is no heat or excitement, from both our ends. we have even spoken about it, we both find that we are not magnetically attracted to each other, which we often feel for othe people of the opposite sex. We both really love each other and don't want to feel like it's a relationship out of habit. please tell me if this is normal, because we both are upset about it and want to feel differently, the way we used to when we first fell in love. Please help. Thank you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: hazelpatwa
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 7:14pm
Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix

The 10 Second Kiss, Ellen Kreidman

Passionate Marriage, David Schnarch


Carrie