No longer in love

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2007
No longer in love
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Thu, 07-17-2008 - 10:54am
I have fallen out of love with my husband and I don't know what to do.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 1:46pm

Welcome to the board iwantproof,


Reading material to consider:


Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw


Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix


Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman


The 10 Second Kiss, Ellen Kreidman


I feel bad for both your children for the life lessons they are learning from their father's treatment of them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 3:20pm

Welcome to the board iwantproof,


Have you talked to your husband about how you are feeling?


Do you have any desire at all to remain in the marriage or try to fix it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 4:22pm
Do you guys need for him to work two jobs?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 9:09pm

How long has it been over for?

Missy
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2007
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 10:13pm
Thanks, Missy....yeah, it's really been over for me since the birth of my 2nd child...he had been sleeping on the couch because I was 9 months pregnant and wouldn't have sex with him....I gave birth and then he left the hospital without even kissing me goodbye.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2007
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 10:16pm
We don't talk.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 6:13pm

Z
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2007
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 7:32pm
I honestly don't know...I would love to be free of the relationship once and for all but I am not the only person I have to consider.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 7:58pm

Z