No place to have sex.

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No place to have sex.
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Sun, 10-23-2011 - 4:36pm
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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 7:43am
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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 9:32am
Mernoosh, you realize that he wants the break so he can find someone to have sex with, don't you?
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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 10:26am
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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 11:18am
He told you that he "has" to have sex. Don't kid yourself into thinking that's not exactly what he's looking for with this break up.

If someone were so broke they couldn't even once afford a cheap motel over time, coupled with them wanting to break up because of lack of sex, that would be the last he'd see of me.

He's living with his parents so his bills should be minimal. Why doesn't he have the money for a night at a motel?

His story doesn't add up.

Sorry.

 

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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 11:26am

I have to agree w/ cat.alley on this one--what he says does not make sense.

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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 12:13pm

He is using it as an excuse to break up with you. He acts like it is your fault when its 50% his fault too since his house is also off limits.

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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 12:20pm
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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 12:28pm

The alternative is for him to be an adult and wait until the opportunity presents itself again, then you can again be intimate. Don't you see the larger issue here???!!!

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Mon, 10-24-2011 - 12:34pm
From what I understand, they quit having sex 2 months ago. What man in love can't go through such a short period of time?

And hope I'm not too graphic, but a quick hand job or bj when an opportunity arises will surely carry a guy through a couple of months. Geez!

I don't get it. I've had sex (of all sorts) in the woods, sex in a car in the woods, sex outside in the rain, in the pasture, in a lake, and ocean, in a car at night in a park, in our restroom.

I guess my point is, where there's a will, there's a way. ; )

And I found her comment about laid back white parents interesting, haha.

 

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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 1:17pm