No Sex

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Registered: 05-23-2010
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Tue, 01-03-2012 - 11:43pm

Alright, something has GOT to be wrong with me...

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: labellavita07
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 12:48pm

I think that there are male female friendships which aren't sexual, but if people are supposedly in a romantic relationship it's odd that they don't want to have sex.

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Registered: 09-05-2011
In reply to: labellavita07
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 1:46am
Every relationship must not be sexual. If this happens to be one of such point it out to him(if he asks).
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Registered: 01-05-2012
In reply to: labellavita07
Fri, 01-06-2012 - 4:01pm

Did you just get out of a relationship? And maybe you want to get back with him? Because if he's very attractive and you really like being around him, I can't think of anything else. If you were just friends and had no chemistry than that might be the issue but it doesn't sound like it.

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In reply to: labellavita07
Thu, 01-05-2012 - 4:45pm

<< Otherwise, you will continue to pull away from good prospects and find yourself with Mr. Wrong over and over again. >>

I agree but that doesn't answer her question. Carl Jung states that infatuation occurs for one of two reasons or a combination thereof. Both lead to sexual desire since sex leads to bonding and bonding is required for both processes to succeed.

1) We desire to glean traits which we lack and

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: labellavita07
Thu, 01-05-2012 - 3:40pm

Then I'm curious--since you're not married, why aren't you with the man you ARE attracted to instead of your BF who you are NOT attracted to?

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Registered: 12-05-2010
In reply to: labellavita07
Thu, 01-05-2012 - 12:14am

labellavita07 wrote:
there is another man in my life that im currently very attracted to.. i know that doesnt hep my situation any

Hi. You obviously have a psychological block that keeps you from getting too

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Registered: 05-23-2010
In reply to: labellavita07
Wed, 01-04-2012 - 10:46pm
I have had many lovers in the past 10yrs and not once have I ever had an issue with getting aroused.
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Registered: 05-23-2010
In reply to: labellavita07
Wed, 01-04-2012 - 10:44pm
there is another man in my life that im currently very attracted to.. i know that doesnt hep my situation any
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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: labellavita07
Wed, 01-04-2012 - 7:06pm

Labellavita07, you do have a history of bizarre and unsatisfying relationships.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: labellavita07
Wed, 01-04-2012 - 12:49pm

I have to ask the same questions as musiclover.

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