Alright, something has GOT to be wrong with me...
<< Otherwise, you will continue to pull away from good prospects and find yourself with Mr. Wrong over and over again. >>
I agree but that doesn't answer her question. Carl Jung states that infatuation occurs for one of two reasons or a combination thereof. Both lead to sexual desire since sex leads to bonding and bonding is required for both processes to succeed.
1) We desire to glean traits which we lack and
Did you just get out of a relationship? And maybe you want to get back with him? Because if he's very attractive and you really like being around him, I can't think of anything else. If you were just friends and had no chemistry than that might be the issue but it doesn't sound like it.
I think that there are male female friendships which aren't sexual, but if people are supposedly in a romantic relationship it's odd that they don't want to have sex.