no1 ever replies 2 my posts..please help

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2008
no1 ever replies 2 my posts..please help
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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:02pm

this is going to be really long, but im going to go ahead and explain everything and hope someone can offer some insight.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:38pm

Ok... since you mentioned it... a little constructive criticism...


Hint:

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:46pm
yeah i should have thought about that before! haha thanks! how's that? lol
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:48pm
Much
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:50pm
sooo any advice to my problem? lol
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:58pm

<< he said he just gets bored because we do the same things all the time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 12:00am
thanks, i'll keep those things in mind!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 6:29am

May I ask how old you are?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 8:50am
im 20 and he is 23.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 1:40pm

Hi bnr4566,


On this board, this is the only post I could find that you previously posted from Feb: bored? please hel[p


Do you two have a common activity or hobby that you can do together?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 3:28pm

Sometimes boredom, depression and unhappiness with life have to do not simply with a relationship but with a person's own issues - the work he's doing, his/her friendships, or family relationships. There are many parts to a person's lilfe that have to be attended to. You cannot rely on a relationship to give you everything you need. So, if he is depressed or bored, then maybe he needs to get a therapist and take a good look at all of his life, what it is that may be disturbing him, and where he hopes to go. A relationship is best when two people are happy and fulfilled on their own and then can bring that excitement and interest to the relationship. Sounds to me that he needs to work on his own life.


All good wishes,

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