no1 ever replies 2 my posts..please help

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Registered: 02-04-2008
no1 ever replies 2 my posts..please help
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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:02pm

this is going to be really long, but im going to go ahead and explain everything and hope someone can offer some insight.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 4:31pm

<< im 20 and he is 23. >>


That's your problem.

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Registered: 02-04-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 5:25pm

Starbuck, for you to say I'm not mature enough for a 'real' relationship is a bit off-putting. How can you say I'm immature when you know nothing about me? You know nothing about what kind of life I've lived thus far, or anything.

I appreciate you trying to help, but it seems somewhat rude that you would say that. Just because I'm young does not mean that I'm too immature to handle a relationship. And yes, I know its bad 'bro code'or whatever for how we got together but that was his decision, and he and the ex are still friends, so obviously, no harm done.

All I'm saying is just please don't judge me when you don't know me. I'm not trying to be rude and I'm not trying to cause problems, or have people on here think I'm a rude person, but I believe in taking up for myself. So, sorry if I offended you or anyone.

To everyone else who is offering suggestions, it is much appreciated and I'm taking them all into consideration.

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