not feeling the love, what to do?
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| Tue, 08-03-2004 - 6:36pm |
it has been very difficult for me. i feel like he's totally extracted himself from this relationship. we'd go for days without talking and then i'd call to check in. he hasn't been very responsive, waiting until the next day to call me back. this infuriates me! but i feel like i can't tell him about it becasue he's in his cave.
our conversations have been strained. i feel like i'm totally shut out. he's not putting any effort into this relationship and i feel really unimportant to him. it would be so easy for him to just call me back, and even take the initiative to call me on his own. but he doesn't. i'm not feeling the love, i'm not happy with the way things are going. is it wrong to expect there to still be communication when they need their alone time?
i have a life and have been active with friends and doing things for myself. i don't feel dependant on him for my happiness, yet at the same time i'm unhappy with the way things are going. i just don't think it's right to be able to completely disappear from a relationship with someone for 2 weeks. a few days i'm ok w/ but i'm not feeling like i'm getting what i deserve. i'm just scared this is a pattern. what happens if we live together or are married? does he just go away for weeks on end and not call me. is this normal behavior for a guy in a relationship? how much should the girl take?
anyone else going through this?
Edited 8/3/2004 8:12 pm ET ET by spicemamacaw
| Wed, 08-04-2004 - 7:12pm |
