Not sure what to do .

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Registered: 10-28-2011
Not sure what to do .
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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 11:06am

Hi ,

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 11:51am

Honestly this guy does not seem like a very caring person.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 12:06pm

I agree with everything Musiclover said......your first loyalty is to your mother and your son!

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 12:57pm
Sorry but going toyour moms house 1X a week to help her clean and go get groceries is something a good daughter SHOULD do if she is able too. I would love to do that for my 88 yr. old mom, but I can't because I live over a thousand miles away from her (and the guilt is tremendous) but due to my H's job transfer I have no other choice but to live here. If I were you, I would take his behavior as a forewarning about how selfish and uncaring he is as a fiancee, and if you think he's selfih now, just wait until you marry him and become HIS wife, HIS possesion, and have to live with him 24/7. He is going to be one of these "my way or the highway" type of controlling husbands. The only good thing about moving in with him now would be you would get a real taste of what he's really like to live with and you'd probably call off the engagement within a few months after seeing the real him.
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Registered: 07-29-2002
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 1:10pm

I agree with the other ladies.

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Registered: 07-13-2011
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 6:10pm

I agree.

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sun, 04-22-2012 - 12:32am

Well at least he's not presenting himself to be Prince Charming like most of them do BEFORE you marry them and have kids, and then turn into lying, cheating bastards.

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Registered: 07-13-2011
Sun, 04-22-2012 - 12:56am

Yep!!