not sure what i should do...
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| Mon, 12-17-2007 - 11:22am |
I’ve been going out with my b/f for 6 years almost 7( we broke up dec,7).. Yes a long time but lately I just don’t feel the same about out relationship( for about 6 months), I do care for him deeply and I don’t want to hurt him but I feel that maybe its time to end it. There a lot of history with us and I know its not going to be easy but I feel that staying apart is the right thing to do, he feel quite the opposite. He REALLY wants to get back together. Im 23 hes 27 we started dating when I was 16, we see each other about 2 times a week b/c we kind of live far from each other. About 2 weeks ago I have a conversation with him about his gaming…he plays games all day and he kind of took it offensively and since then every time we see each other we get into an argument. He says if we get back together he will make en effort to see me more, normally I go to his house one day and he comes to mine the next….. He is really stressed b/c he doesn’t have a job and he cant seem to find one ( Michigan job market is bad) I just don’t know what to do I really care for him and I don’t wanna hurt him if I tell him I don’t wanna get back together is going to hurt him A LOT …..i just don’t know what to do….. Another thing that bothers me is really we don’t talk to each others family….my family is really important to me and I want him to be a part of my family….family is not so important to him he thinks that it will come in time…but its been almost 7 year and he still cant talk to my family and vise versa……really confused I need some help…..im just SO CONFUSED....how 2 people could feel so different....he's telling me if we get back together things will change .....but why now?? Why not when we were going out?? and why am i so willing to say goodbye so fast after so long? Should I said I will go back out with him to see if hes really going to change?? I don’t know……

'I don’t wanna hurt him if I tell him I don’t wanna get back together is going to hurt him A LOT'
What favors will you do him if you stay when you don't want to?
Welcome to the board silkyg023,
Get back together with him because you love him and want to be with him; not because you don't want to hurt him.
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Welcome to the board silkyg023,
Being with someone or staying with someone because you don't want to hurt their feelings, is not a good reason.