Not sure where I stand now

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Not sure where I stand now
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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 10:57am
Since my friend has taken his daughter on this vacation we haven't really spoken. He travels a lot and we've always been in constant contact when he's gone. hr long phone calls at night....emails & short calls throughout the day. We've spoken 2x....just about business and emails are short and about work...I always sound cheerful and happy to hear from him.
I'm confused, when he left Tuesday we were laughing and smiling. I had to call him about work and he was good but as soon as he picked up his daughter he changed. Our conversation was ok....got a "thanks" for forwarding his business line to his cell....and that's it. I am wondering if this is how it'll be from now on. He returns tomorrow....we don't have kids til Sunday evening. I really care for this relationship but am leary now.

~Karen
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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 11:14am
I can understand you being leary. When he gets back you really need to sit down with him and talk about this. Ask him how he plans on things being from now on and let him know how you want things to be. Hopefully you can work this out.
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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 11:30am
Thanks, that was sorta my plan. I am TERRIFIED of the outcome though..I wouldn't expect him to choose me over his d. She's his blood. I don't think Id want a man who did really. Getting involved with someone with kids is hard....for both of us and the kids..so many different personalities.....assertive(my s)passive(his s) both our girls are assertive and protective of their brothers. Before vacation.....it was good.....REALLY good......can I cry now????

~Karen
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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 1:19pm
I am sorry things went so bad after the vacation. I think, though, that if they were good to begin with that you can get back to that point. Good luck.
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