not turned on /baby involved

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Registered: 09-25-2006
not turned on /baby involved
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Fri, 05-18-2007 - 9:33am
I was going through a divorce and just wanted to party and use a man for money i told my best friend. I worked ina
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 05-18-2007 - 2:20pm

Welcome to the board mtbporru,


Have you told him about everything that is bothering you? You mentioned you had talked to him about some things (his hairyness), about have you talked to him about everything else? Maybe if you need, he would be willing to make some changes.


But really, he doesn't seem like you love him and that you will be happy in the relationship. There is no point in staying in this relationship, if you will never be happy.


You could try couples counseling if you think it will help.


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Registered: 09-25-2006
Fri, 05-18-2007 - 3:08pm
you are right. i care about him and don't think he deserves any bad manners. i have tried hard to get him into exercise. it's not his priority but thats ironic that he likes a nice toned body on a female. i knew he will always be an excellent father something i didn't have and most children didn't have. so i figured even though i didn't know we'd be tied into a long term responsibility while we were partying as many women do love to plan that i thought that we could make it work because he's so great in other ways and my feelings would get more sentimental after the baby