now what??

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2002
now what??
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 7:37am

hi agin,


not that long ago im sure half of u read my post on what to do just right now im trying to sort myself out and he called me to say happy bday, he could have text, and thats not uninterupted me time. hes talking about how he's looking forward to hearing from me later today. i dont know whether to go with the flow or put my foot down and insist we take time to think about our situation.


any ideas???


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: jmilano
Wed, 01-30-2008 - 1:51pm
What do you feel would be best for you and your relationship?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: jmilano
Wed, 01-30-2008 - 2:01pm

Here's your first post - HELP!! what can I do??


You can ignore his call.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2002
In reply to: jmilano
Sat, 02-02-2008 - 5:43am
hello, well my birthday was very interesting in the end although i specifically told him not to call or anything as you know he did, and worse than that he sent me flowers with a note saying he relasised he did nt want to be without me!! he hasnt been pestering me to much yet
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2007
In reply to: jmilano
Sat, 02-02-2008 - 5:08pm
It's very mature of you to hold your ground like that and tell him you need time. Because really, he needs it too. No one calls for a break and then magically forgets about those feelings a few days later. In reality they've just swept it under the rug and it will only come up again later. Tell him he needs to figure out WHY he did what he did--and REALLY figure it out because your emotions don't deserve to be played with.