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oh the lies
| Fri, 03-23-2007 - 3:15pm |
Ok.I have posted before in the jealousy thread.
Well I have finally decided to get help and try to work through this with him.
But yesterday I went online to get on AIM. He told me not to install aim on the comp, so I saw he had a trillion thing installed so i clicked on it and it signed on his name. I looked through his b/l for sheer boredem and saw a bunch on slutty names on there. Reason enoough to start snooping.
I went through his conversations and saw a girl he had a fling with in the past he had been talking to. He told her he was only with me for the kid. Also she imed him asking her to come over and do her. He said hed love to but his daughter was sick.
Not the worst of it. He told a friend he goes to strip clubs behind my back. I went into his email accounts and saw a box FULL of places for people to meet people just to have sex with. Then I saw he had been soliciting prostitutes from criagslist.
I confronted him and he said the prostitute thing was to see if it was a scam. He was leading the one chick on and he was mad wen he said he was with me for the kid. He said the friend was an old club buddy and he wanted to save face by telling him bout the strip club thing. He said he checked the sites out, only to see what they were about.
He claims he hasnt cheated on me and is sorry and loves me. He says he was looking at porn, that he admits to, and that is a big no no to me. His whole thing is he wants to feel "alive"
He is a compulsive liar, that I know. He says if i break up with him he will do ANYTHING to get me back
Righht now I dont know what to do. I dont think hes cheated physically. But I have lost any amount of trust I have. I cant beleive a WORD that exits his mouth.
What would you guys do if it were you?
Well I have finally decided to get help and try to work through this with him.
But yesterday I went online to get on AIM. He told me not to install aim on the comp, so I saw he had a trillion thing installed so i clicked on it and it signed on his name. I looked through his b/l for sheer boredem and saw a bunch on slutty names on there. Reason enoough to start snooping.
I went through his conversations and saw a girl he had a fling with in the past he had been talking to. He told her he was only with me for the kid. Also she imed him asking her to come over and do her. He said hed love to but his daughter was sick.
Not the worst of it. He told a friend he goes to strip clubs behind my back. I went into his email accounts and saw a box FULL of places for people to meet people just to have sex with. Then I saw he had been soliciting prostitutes from criagslist.
I confronted him and he said the prostitute thing was to see if it was a scam. He was leading the one chick on and he was mad wen he said he was with me for the kid. He said the friend was an old club buddy and he wanted to save face by telling him bout the strip club thing. He said he checked the sites out, only to see what they were about.
He claims he hasnt cheated on me and is sorry and loves me. He says he was looking at porn, that he admits to, and that is a big no no to me. His whole thing is he wants to feel "alive"
He is a compulsive liar, that I know. He says if i break up with him he will do ANYTHING to get me back
Righht now I dont know what to do. I dont think hes cheated physically. But I have lost any amount of trust I have. I cant beleive a WORD that exits his mouth.
What would you guys do if it were you?

Well since you asked what we would do, I would probably break up with him. Especially said you said he is a compulsive liar and you don't trust him anymore. Do you think he was lying to you with all the reasons he gave you about the prostitute, the other woman, and the strip club because they all sound like excuses to me.
If you want to work on fixing the relationship, I would demand counseling from him and that he end all contact with the other women and the prostitute sight.
If you do decide to end the relationship, talk to a lawyer about child support and child custody.
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Hi Shea,
Glad to here you are going to get help for yourself.