With an OLDER man
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| Fri, 07-13-2007 - 6:20pm |
Nice to know that I am not the only one who is also going through the same experience, yet my is different in one way.....I am currently the age of 22, the man I am seeing is 18 years older than myself, which would make him 40 years young.
We dated when I was 18, and we dated for 2 wonderful years. It was great, it was fun, he was wonderful and I learned so much from him. He showed me sights and told me things that I would not have known any other way. He was ADVENTOROUS!! The story is, he was my step-fathers best friend and I found him absolutely attractive. When we started dating, we dated on the sly, trying to keep our relationship under wraps. I would meet him at the shopping mall not too far from my mom's house and we would leave from there and he would take me to another wonderful place I had not gone to. My step-father, by the way, does not approve of our relationship. We had to in time, tell him of our seeing eachother and my step-father had a very hard time of fathoming his friend being with his step-daughter. The end result of this, was that I ended up moving out of my parents house and I moved in with my new partner.
To make a story short, after two years of dating, we decided to marry and marry we did! We have now been married for 2 years, and I love him so much! Yes, every now and again when we go out we get the questionable stares, but we could care less for we love eachother so. As for me wanting to have kids of my own, as he already has 3 from a previous marriage, we will have one in several years, when I have recieved my education and we have our first house together.
For all the other girls with older men, I say go for it and do as your heart desire...not letting anyone get in the way of your potential love you may have for the older man in your life.
