One month broken and sex
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One month broken and sex
| Mon, 10-17-2011 - 4:22am |
my boyfriend an I r 28 years old been together 7 years ups an downs, goods and bads an out of those 7 we lived together 2 of those years. we were happy, then money got tight an he started acting weird an moved out an left me with the apt for a month. we talked, texted an saw each other occasionally when he would come by our apt. he said he was shame bc money was slowing down an he might have to give up the apt that's y he moved out bc he didn't know how to tell me that, so from August 1 - 30 I stayed at the apt alone bc he felt less of a man, he lived with his mom during that time. he still paid all the bills an gave money for grocery while I was there. September 11 I decided to make it easy on him an give us a break an I moved out of our apt an back to my moms house, it wasn't a bad split, we cried, an talkede etc. after sept 11, I tried to break communication with him, but he stilled texted an called everyday, telling me he loved me an missed me an wanted to see me an that he hopes we end up back together an that something good comes out of us breaking, for a entire month he has been doing this, I love unconditionally (7 years together of course I would). for a month he texted an expressed all of how he felt bout me, I texted back also, two weeks ago he texted an told me that he been thinking bout us an all he been doing is thinking bout us and having sex again. he said I am the only girl he can think bout being with n that way. so for two weeks he's been trying to get me to come over an make love again, of course I have been playing hard to get for two weeks an he keeps begging. but now I'm thinking of giving n.... we love each other an we talked bout getting back together an getting things going again, but I don't want to give it an make love an we don't get back together. I don't feel he saying all this to do that, but playing hard is getting hard for me now..... I can see if we werent together 7 years, then I wouldn't do it at all, but after 7 years an we want to get back together I want to ? we both want a future (marriage an family with one another).... we talk bout that alot.... would it b a great idea to give in to having sex ?
It seems as if you both are missing having sex with each other. But if could be a let down for either or both of you if one or the other feels it means you are back together and it turn out it
I think it says a lot about what's going on in his head, where his primary reason for getting together is to have sex.
He hasn't been able to hook up with anyone else yet, so you're the "go-to" for sex until he does.
Hi Rose.