One "secret" can ruin it all.
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|Thu, 07-14-2011 - 1:40pm|
I am not perfect and I have made mistakes. I am a college student and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. One night I spent the night in my guy friend's dorm room (accidently, I feel asleep) and I didn't tell my boyfriend because I knew he would get upset. Nothing at all happened, we slept on two different sides of the room, but my boyfriend hates this guy. I just kept it to myself to reduce drama at the time because we were going through a pregnancy scare and it just didn't feel like the right time.
Recently it came up that I spent the night at this guy's dorm room. I didn't have anything to hide so I told him what happened and why I didn't tell him at the exact time it happened. My boyfriend was so upset, rightly so I guess, yet his lack of trust in me is really starting to hurt. He has always been kind of jealous but never like this.Ever since he found out he doubts everything I say, always has a smart,snippy remark, and makes me feel bad. He keeps saying "Put yourself in my shoes". I have and I feel I have apologized enough. I ask what I can do and he says "It fine", "I'm cool" even though it obviously not. I know I messed up but I didn't cheat and have never given him a reason to doubt me. I have been such a great girlfriend to him and now he barely appreciates me! It may be his past since he was cheated on in every relationship he has been in.