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| Tue, 03-23-2004 - 12:59pm |
well its like this my boyfriend and i haven't had sex for nearly a month now,he says its because he's tired....and it is like that he works from 8 am till 8:30 pm everynight,but last night i said something to him that i really and truly regret saying i said that if i don't get it soon i'm gonna go look for it elsewhere..OMG! i think i really really made him mad i wouldn't really go and get it from somewhere else..how can i fix this and make it right?!

Not having sex for a month is something that needs attention. It says something about what is going on in the relationship. Even if he works long hours, there are always the week-ends. It sounds as though something is bothering him, that he may not even be aware of, and that he is witholding sex. You have a right to express your desire and frustration. You must feel quite deprived. Open this up for a clear discussion. Let him know you didn't mean to say that, but also let him know that whatever is bothering him, this is not the way to handle it, but not having sex. Sometimes guys withdraw this way when they want to leave a relationship. Whatever is going on, it needs to be discussed and explored.
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You make this right but sitting down with him and apologizing for hurting his feelings...tehn ask him if there is anything bother ing him that he'd like to talk about.It seems as though he's not letting on to what really is going on.