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Oral Sex Complex
| Mon, 01-19-2004 - 11:06pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and enjoy a wonderful sex life. I have been giving him oral sex for months, and I recently brought up the topic of him giving me oral sex. The topic had come up only once before, and he told me that he wanted to, but wasn't sure if I wanted him to or not. I told him that although I was not begging for it, that I would enjoy being on the receiving end. However, that was about 6 months ago, so I brought it up again. He told me that he wanted to, but said he has what he referred to as a complex, and can't bring himself to actually do it. I told him that I was more than willing to work slowly at it with him, I am willing to do whatever it takes to help him through this. But he won't budge, he says there's nothing to do but wait until he gets over this feeling he cannot understand. I am confused and a bit frustrated...why won't he at least give it a shot? He says that he is comfortable doing it, and not afraid of not knowing what to do, but can't explain to me how he feels. I fear that his stubborness may be a precurser to problems in the future...any thoughts?

Well, I don't think this is a "precursor" to future problems, this is something he is not comfortable doing and he is making that clear.
James
janderson_ny@yahoo.com
CL Ask A Guy
So don't take it personally,as if he's got an issue with YOU that is keeping him from doing it....it's not that. He doesn't "give" oral - put a period at the end of the sentence, and move on.
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
Good luck....