the overwhelming urge for sex
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| Wed, 11-28-2007 - 10:43pm |
Hi I need to get some information from a few sources here.
My man has suddenly become what he calls highly sexual, in other words, suddenly he wants sex every minute of everyday. He gets extremely moody when I am not talking about sex or having sex. he wants to have two women, watch them, watch me with another guy, or some form of all the above. Thing is, he says it would only be once in a while, but to tell the truth, even when we have sex, HE cannot last as long as I would like him to, even with Viagra, he still is lazy. Wants me to do most of the doing. I gets boring when I have to concentrate ALL the time on making a good show for him.
He has recently become unemployed, we have financial trouble. I work everyday but he wants it every morning, wants me to be calling him all day telling him sex stories, arranging sex
situations, talking sex, sex, sex. If he does not get his way, he is very very moody, nothing makes him happy, nothing. He picks picks picks and everything is my fault, but he won't talk to me when he gets in these moods.
Who would say that it is because of his unemployment that he holds so hard to sexual desires? To the point of almost becoming obsessed? I am worn out sometimes. I need a decent nights sleep.
we've been together 25 years, this did not just start but it as become huge in the last 5 years, now becoming huge in need every 3 months like a period that skips a couple of months. He is 57 years old. What the hell is he going through, MEN -O- Puss need? What?
suggestions...I welcome them.
Thank you.

Welcome to the board mssleeper,
Sounds like your husband is using sex to fill a void, replace his job and make him feel desired, which is where you come it.
Welcome to the board mssleeper,
I am sorry, but I don't really have much advice for you. Would he be willing to see a counselor for this. It seems strange to me that this behavior/desire comes and goes everything couple of months.
Talking to him doctor nothing medical is causing this is
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You are describing an illness, an addiction, obsession and certainly symptoms of something else in his life going terribly wrong. You absolutely do not have to participate in this, act out his wishes, or get pulled into his problem. It is a problem. It is not a normal, healthy expression of sexual desire, but a compensation for other things, and also it sounds like a desperate way to bind lots of anxiety he is going through. He must get to a well trained mental health professional immediately. This is not something he can understand or handle on his own, nor can you. At the moment, he doesn't see it as a problem, so he may not be willing to get the help he so badly needs. In that case, find a well trained professional yourself to get counseling on how to handle this,
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