Painful Fight, Painful Words
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Painful Fight, Painful Words
| Tue, 12-18-2007 - 9:15am |
Little background: Me 28, M 25, been together 1yr 3months... Basically have a great relationship, he's always very loving & supportive of me, always tells me how he feels about me, how much he loves me etc. We are the couple you would probably get annoyed with because we are always so happy together :o)

Hi there kbi,
Hugs to you.
What was said was hurtful and there's no avoiding that.
However, you were both drunk, and it was late, so both of you were tired.
There is a lot of game playing here. You taking off and sulking and sitting in the car and waiting for him to come after you- it really sounds like the behavior of a 17 year old, don't you think? When alcohol is involved and lots of people are around I think it is best to wait until you two are
Welcome to the board kbi22,
It seems like the sitution got a little out of hand, but it does appear to be a one time event. At this point, I think it is best to chalk it up to drinking and being tired and put it behind you. Call him and make plans together before you leave for Christmas.
Best of luck to you.
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Thanks everyone for making me feel better.... Yes, I know my way of handling things are not prefect (when I get hurt or whatever, I run away- like to my car or to my house). He HATES when I do this, because he said his mother ran out on his family & if I am going to run away, then he will let me. He did ask me in the morning (when we calmed down & were sober), that if I need to talk to him to tell him instead of me assuming he should know (understandable, I will try to make an effort).
Now, I was thinking of this idea & please give me some insight. No, I am not very good with history- I would like to be knowledgable about it (not even because of him, but because I think I should know more then I do). There is a Civil War museum here in our city. He has always wanted to go. We are celebrating our Xmas the weekend after
'I don't know if he would think I am throwing the situation back at him, or thinking I am doing something geniune to enlighten myself more'
I like the idea. What concerns me is that you are afraid of how he would react. You have been dating awhile. We don't know how
>>I also wanted to replace the Playstation I broke which is only like $130 so it's nothing huge. I think if I give him it as an xmas gift he wouldn't accept it though. <<
Yes, do replace the Playstation, but don't give it for Christmas.