Paranoid after emotional affair...
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|Tue, 11-08-2011 - 5:56am|
My husband and I have been married 17 years - we've had ups and downs but stayed together with no talk of divorce until about a year ago. We're military - both of us - and my husband retired when we moved back to the states so he hasn't worked since then (2009 so I think I've been pretty lenient on this). Due to his boredom and having nothing else to do, he started staying up until 3-5 am (when I got up for work) so we very rarely slept together, excessive porn use, stayed on the computer almost constantly and for all intents and purposes, stopped talking to me. Our withdrawl from each other and fights continued to worsen.
It was about 6 months ago that I came across the texts which then led me to facebook where I saw the year long thread with an old female, divorced