Parents "keep him busy"
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Parents "keep him busy"
| Mon, 09-13-2004 - 11:56am |
I have been seeing this wonderful guy for 2 years now, and his biggest fault is letting people walk all over him. He will drop everything to go fix someone's car that he hasn't heard from in a year. Anyway, the biggest problem with this is his own parents. He does everything for them, but it's starting to become a problem. I live a little far away, and every time I drive up there to see him, they send him on errands and make him do housework the entire time, while I sit by myself. It's starting to get ridiculous.
For example, this Sunday I went up there to take him out for his birthday, and because I was away and hadn't seen him in 3 weeks. His dad asked him to quickly help him with something, which I was okay with. TWO HOURS later, he was still in the backyard BUILDING A SHED!! I sat and watched TV alone inside. He knows I get upset about this, but he feels like they're his parents, and since he still ives there, that he should do what they ask him. It happens every single time I go up there and it's really becoming a problem! What should I do?? Help!
For example, this Sunday I went up there to take him out for his birthday, and because I was away and hadn't seen him in 3 weeks. His dad asked him to quickly help him with something, which I was okay with. TWO HOURS later, he was still in the backyard BUILDING A SHED!! I sat and watched TV alone inside. He knows I get upset about this, but he feels like they're his parents, and since he still ives there, that he should do what they ask him. It happens every single time I go up there and it's really becoming a problem! What should I do?? Help!

Carrie