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The Perpetual Bachelor
| Wed, 01-07-2004 - 6:54pm |
Hi! I am 34, divorced mom of 2, been dating a wonderful man, 48, for 2 months. He has a terrible pattern of being with someone for about a year..and then something happens and he moves on...he has lived in various countries, ex-military, never married, no kids...has a bad habit of constantly talking about his girlfrinds until I told him that it made me feel less unique in every way and tries to maintain friendships with them..which they don't respond to...and he gets all hurt and can't understand it....
I am in love with him..we made love last week...this week he has been "really busy" to reply my e-mails...or call...which he usually does...but ofcourse I know we have a banquet to go to this Fri and a date this Sunday...he'll be sweet...BUT..is this pattern breakable at all...
I have noticed that he likes to come over rather than invite me over...he makes himself comfortable at my place but shows little inclination to share his place...
Help me...?I have never dated before and am naive...

Coming over vs. inviting you out is not a good sign.
Carrie
Have aheart to heart conversation with him and ask him where things are going. If you are afraid that the conversation will scare him away then you need to find that out now.
I also find it very suspicious that he won't invite you over. I wonder if he has something or someone else going on.
perhaps bi-sexual and has male partner at home waiting for him or or or or or
or married and has female partner waiting at home.
uh oh, don't like this one bit.
i know it's so hard to find someone
but but
dump him
don't wait for him, sweetie.
u'll waste ur whole life on this one
kitties
Its sounds like you have a BF that