pictures of the X

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-03-2008
pictures of the X
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Fri, 04-18-2008 - 11:23am

my bf and I have been together for 2yrs. WE live together.


About a year ago he said he was going to delete all the pictures of his X-girfriend out of the computer (he had AL OT AND I MEAN ALOT OF PICS OF HER.)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2006
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 11:35am

I dunno, I don't think pictures of an ex are that big of a deal.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 11:47am

"I shouldnt have to see her every time I turn on the computer!!"
What, was she set as his desktop wallpaper?

I think you have serious problems for needing to go through and delete his pictures of her. She is in his history, and unless he has an attachment to her now, it was extremely rude and uncalled for to go in and erase them, even if he promised to do it himself (which he said, by the way, only to get you off of his back).

I would never put up with so immature, insecure and resentful. I hope he dumps you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 12:14pm

Welcome to the board chimpy581,


What's done is done, right, wrong or indifferent, you can't change it now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 1:44pm
Does he have the right to sift through anything that is yours and dispose of it at his sole discretion?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-03-2008
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 1:58pm

thank you to all who answered my post w/ out saying anything Rude, snide, disrespectful, or immature.....


to the one person who did......im sorry that your life sucks that bad to where you have to say things to people like


"i hope your boyfreind dumps you"

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-03-2008
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 2:21pm

oh and to all of you who said how can i go through his stuff like that........


1. He gave me PERMISSION to delete them


2. I did not violate his privacy by searching through his things....it is our SHARED COMPUTER.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 2:54pm

"And it has nothing to do w/ insecurity, please I am 27, i could pass for 19...beautiful green eyes, nice body, good job, etc....got no problems w/ lovin myself @ all."

Uh, that's great, and congratulations on your beauty, but insecurity has nothing to do with looks.

" Just as much as I shouldnt have to see his ex....he shouldnt have to see mine....Its just awkward and weird."

Again, unless pictures of her are being used as his desktop wallpaper, you don't "have" to see them, you're looking for them.

Something is just wrong with this picture.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 3:09pm

First you accused him of lying to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 4:10pm

You told him if he didn't delete them you were going to...what did you expect him to say?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-03-2008
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 4:55pm

i didnt accuse him of lying


he flat out LIED to me, to my face.


he admitted to me, this morning that when he was going to delete the pictures, he really wanst going to delete them, he was going to save them somewhere else on a different computer and not tell me


that is lying.

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