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pictures of the X
| Fri, 04-18-2008 - 11:23am |
my bf and I have been together for 2yrs. WE live together.
About a year ago he said he was going to delete all the pictures of his X-girfriend out of the computer (he had AL OT AND I MEAN ALOT OF PICS OF HER.)

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I dunno, I don't think pictures of an ex are that big of a deal.
"I shouldnt have to see her every time I turn on the computer!!"
What, was she set as his desktop wallpaper?
I think you have serious problems for needing to go through and delete his pictures of her. She is in his history, and unless he has an attachment to her now, it was extremely rude and uncalled for to go in and erase them, even if he promised to do it himself (which he said, by the way, only to get you off of his back).
I would never put up with so immature, insecure and resentful. I hope he dumps you.
Welcome to the board chimpy581,
What's done is done, right, wrong or indifferent, you can't change it now.
thank you to all who answered my post w/ out saying anything Rude, snide, disrespectful, or immature.....
to the one person who did......im sorry that your life sucks that bad to where you have to say things to people like
"i hope your boyfreind dumps you"
oh and to all of you who said how can i go through his stuff like that........
1. He gave me PERMISSION to delete them
2. I did not violate his privacy by searching through his things....it is our SHARED COMPUTER.
"And it has nothing to do w/ insecurity, please I am 27, i could pass for 19...beautiful green eyes, nice body, good job, etc....got no problems w/ lovin myself @ all."
Uh, that's great, and congratulations on your beauty, but insecurity has nothing to do with looks.
" Just as much as I shouldnt have to see his ex....he shouldnt have to see mine....Its just awkward and weird."
Again, unless pictures of her are being used as his desktop wallpaper, you don't "have" to see them, you're looking for them.
Something is just wrong with this picture.
First you accused him of lying to you.
You told him if he didn't delete them you were going to...what did you expect him to say?
i didnt accuse him of lying
he flat out LIED to me, to my face.
he admitted to me, this morning that when he was going to delete the pictures, he really wanst going to delete them, he was going to save them somewhere else on a different computer and not tell me
that is lying.
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