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Sat, 12-08-2007 - 8:30am
I have recently been told by a friend (that I've known for about 3 months) that she knows for a fact my boyfriend is cheating on me. Her source told me that he has been bringing girls to his dorm and sleeping with them for over a month. My gut feeling tells me no. I have confronted him and his answer remains no. I have decided to goo on with our relationship, but keep a cautious eye out. Somehow I feel damned no matter what I do. If I stay with him, I feel like the girls are looking at me like a fool, but if I don't stay I feel like I have betrayed our love and was to quick to throw it away.This all really hurts...what should I do? Is it feasible for me to break up with my boyfriend based on a rumor? Everything in me believes him but i dont understand where all of this is coming from. Some of the times they have said he was cheating, he was in bed with me. What is up with this?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: pemrose414
Sat, 12-08-2007 - 1:43pm

Welcome to the board pemrose414,


Could your friend or her source be interested in your guy? If so that would explain the rumors.






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Registered: 03-07-2005
In reply to: pemrose414
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 6:32am
so i have been cheated on before...so one...if he did cheat on u...would u leave him anyway...thats one question u need to ask urself...so if u find out...would u do anything about it....if no...well just wait until u actually find out...why...becuase what u dont know wont hurt u...ok people may be reading this thinking wtf...but when ur the one in love...its better to be optimistic...especially if all its gonna do is hurt u.
if u would leave him...still dont just leave the fella. i mean u knew this girl for 3 months...and the other girl being in the bed while u are....unless u r take some sleeping meds...i dont thnk so. sounds like jealousy to me...but still keep ur guard. ask a friend to hit on him that he doesnt know...that is simple. if u really look, im sure its obvious
and overall...do leave him...no matter how hard u try...its ALMOSt impossible to forgive them
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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: pemrose414
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 11:40am

First, are you using protection? If he is truly sleeping with several girls you have to take care of yourself and get checked out by a doctor.


You mention 'girls'. Do you have several friends who have evidence of this or is this just the one girl. Does she have an ulterior motive? Ask her for evidence. Ask her to tell you the next time a girl comes to his dorm and show up for yourself. You need to find out and I know you

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: pemrose414
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 12:18pm

Welcome to the board pemrose414,


Do you have any reason to believe that this friend would be lying to you?


Could they give you names of girls that he "might" have slept with that you could talk to?

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