Please Help!!!!

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Registered: 08-25-2004
Please Help!!!!
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 8:37pm
I'm in love with someone. We are both in college and our early 20's, and i met him about 6 or 7 months ago at work. We clicked intstantly, and even though our job doesnt really bring us together often, we choose to see eachother regularly, almost daily, either at work or outside of work. In the beginning, I fought my feelings for him but now, as we get closer, I can't fight it anymore. I'm crazy about him. I have no idea how he feels about me, and I do my best not to let him see how much I care. My wishful thinking tells me he feels the same way, and he has told me before, on many occasions that he has trouble making the first move on a girl. Is that a hint? Does he want me to make a move? All i ever do (stupidly) is tell him that he needs to be more brave and call girls that he's interested in. He has, with my encouragement, a couple times, but he usually ends up ending it with that phonecall saying "she was a mumbler on the phone," I dont know what to think! Help me please! I'm falling for him more and more every day, and I'm worried that I'll lose my chance. How can i tell if he feels the same! What should I do!

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Registered: 09-26-2003
Wed, 10-13-2004 - 8:18am

It sounds like you do care fpr this guy and that mauybe you need to take a chance and ask him out, rather than wonder "what If?" down the road. He probably is a little shy when it comes to making the first move, so make it for him. Eventaully, there will be someone thats for him...is that you???


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Registered: 08-25-2004
Wed, 10-13-2004 - 9:50am
I dont know how to make the first move.. We hang out all the time, but I don't know how to take it to the next level and shift away from this friendship. How do I know he wants me to take it there, what are the signs that he likes me too?