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| Wed, 09-15-2004 - 11:07am |
Lately, my fiance has been snoring and it's keeping me up at night. He never used to snore, it started about a month ago. It's driving me absolutely crazy! I find it so annoying that I have to go into our spare bedroom to sleep, and it really angers me because I hate the spare bed (not comfortable at all) and I can't sleep any better in there! I've been losing sleep because of this and I find myself becoming angry and resentful towards him. It's actually taking a toll on our relationship because I'm just so annoyed with him about this and we've gotten into spats because of it. I told him that he needs to go to a doctor or something because I can't take it anymore. The snoring is so loud and obnoxious. Is this normal? I feel badly about feeling mad at him for it, I know that it's not his fault. But I just can't help but feel angry, resentful and totally annoyed about this!
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| Wed, 09-15-2004 - 11:22am |
Your fiance needs to get an appointment with an ear, nose and throat doctor (Otolaryngologist). There might be a physical problem that can be easily corrected.
| Wed, 09-15-2004 - 1:13pm |
Snoring- yikes. Actually youll find that most men snore. Usually if he didnt snore before its contributed to diet, not enough exersize, maybe alcohol, not enough sleep. Easy fix if he wants to correct his problem. It doesnt take a doctor. You need to be the one to lay down the ground rules however- If he snores, kick him out of bed. You shouldnt have to be the one sleeping in the spare bedroom. This might convince him to correct his problem. However if he snores now, hell probroly snore later in life. When a man or women hits mid life- they will have more stress on their bodies and in turn snoring in more likely. My mother still to this day makes my father sleep on the couch because he snores and shes a light sleeper. They have been married for 40 years. This is just a small road block, I wouldnt let it get you concerned about your future with him- trust me. If a man gets comfortable with a woman ( and woman with man) they tend to put on some pounds. If this is the case, its likely the main reason is diet. You can change that by getting him out of the house and taking him with you on long walks, watching your diets together and in turn it will minimize your stress, which youll probroly see a huge difference in his sleeping habits! So no more typical t.v. lounging time after work gotta get out of the house. Hope I helped. stacy
