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| Fri, 01-02-2004 - 8:57am |
Hi everybody, i need your help once again. I'm 22 years old and engaged to my boyfriend of 3 years. The problem is this, im not sure if i love him anymore. We moved in together about 6 months ago and got engaged like 4 months ago. Things are different now, it feels like the relationship is just boring. I am NEVER in the mood to have sex and its causing alot of trouble in our relationship. I think its because i dont feel respected. When we go out, he always checks out other girls, and not always discretely. At our new years eve party, i was talking to him from across the room and a girl walked by and he looked her up and down right in my face.. I was furious!! Its one thing to do it and me not see but to do it in front of my face really pissed me off! Do i have reason to be pissed?! am i overreacting?? why are men like that..cant they be satisfied with their gf? I think ive been holding those feelings in and unconsciously its screwing up our sex life. At first i thought it was cause of University but now im graduated and im stress free.. but still, i have no feelings to have sex... What do i do?! Should we split up??

If after three years, your fiance is still treatin you with such disrespect, what makes you think that you can change him now?
The sad thing is, that after three years of allowing him to think that treating you in such a way is ok, it will be hard to anything else.At the same time, three years is alot of time and love invested.Follow your heart. But, know that you deserve better than what he is offering you.
Good luck,