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| Sat, 12-01-2007 - 7:08pm |
Hi I split with my b/f a few months ago ive thought a lot about him
since we split. when our songs come on e.t.c i get butterfly's and think thats what we had then it goes. I dumped him because although i was really happy and loved him the relationship went to fast so i broke up with him. months have gone by and weve been a bit of contact he asked if we could try again and i said i dunno cos because ive found a new guy but but this new guy hasn't been treating me well of late and well i miss my ex i think its taken me this long to realize as i kept denying it. is this possible he was so lovely to me and i split up with him and now this new guy isnt treating me so good i miss my ex
what do you think?
does it take things like this to myiss my ex and why didn't i realise before?

Missing someone doesn't mean you should be in a relationship with them. I do think you should get rid of your new guy though, because someone who doesn't treat you the way you deserve does not belong with you. But I think you've still got feelings for your ex because you've stayed in contact, and you haven't quite allowed yourself to think of the breakup as permanent - even though you have started dating someone else.
As for should you get back together with him... I don't know. Do you really want to be with him in spite of what you broke up with him for? If you really think you made a mistake breaking up with him then yes maybe it's worth another shot, but otherwise, it would be best to move on.
Welcome to the board becky885,
At the end of any relationship there is a grieving process to go through.