please help me

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Registered: 10-06-2007
please help me
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Sun, 11-18-2007 - 8:28am
My boyfriend and I had a heart to heart last night. We talked about how we have fallen so hard for eachother and how vunerable that makes us. He told me that he has never felt this way about anyone. He said he is constantly thinking about me. He told me that he loves me a lot more than he wishes he did. I told him I feel extremely vulnerable to because it takes a lot for me to trust by I'm not going to fight it because I love him, I asked if he's going to run and he didn't anwser. He says he's trying to fight the feeelings a little cause they scare him. I asked him if he wants to be wih me, and he seemed offended by the question. He said of course he does, he loves me with all he's got. I am really nervous about what we talked about. What can I do to make him more likely to stay even though he's feeling super vulnerable? Is this a typical guy thing.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: pemrose414
Sun, 11-18-2007 - 10:59am

Welcome to the board pemrose414,


Love is the willingness to be vulnerable to another person.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: pemrose414
Tue, 11-20-2007 - 4:50pm

Welcome to the board pemrose414,