Please Help Me................

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Registered: 08-05-2007
Please Help Me................
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Mon, 09-03-2007 - 11:45pm
I need some help on something. I was dating this guy for 6 yrs. He started to see someone else behind my back while I went away to see family. He didnt say anything to me that night I came back. Its like I was left hanging. I found out by her, from her answering his cell-phone. Anyways, I never even thought twice bought doing anything so disrepectful in the first place. It has been about 6 months. I called about a month ago, and she answered again. I called again one night after a few days, and spoke to him. He said can i call you back, and i said, "if your allowed". So, now he gets this idea that he is going to e-mail me now, and he said in the e-mail to avoid any problems, e-mail him. I think to myself , how freaken lame. I havent done anything bout callin him or anything. So he e-mailed me bout three weeks ago. I didnt respond. So today, i just had some time, and sent him a little e-card saying hello. But to his luck, he never got it, he just e-mailed me instead. I'm stuck on what to do. Should I e-mail him telling whats up or what? My emotions are rolling like thunder, cause i been thinking about him lately, but havent done anything to contact him, cause i feel so messed up to even talk bout how he dissed me so bad. Please help me.........
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Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 09-03-2007 - 11:59pm
Why would you want to date someone who cheats?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 5:42pm

Welcome to the board hunyjms,


Here's some reading material that might help you made a decision:


Are You the One for Me? Barbara DeAngelis


How to Raise Your Self-Esteem, Nathaniel Brandon


Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth, by Sharon Wegscheider Cruse