Please Help Me Get Him Back
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Please Help Me Get Him Back
| Fri, 06-04-2004 - 6:33pm |
I've been in a great relationship for four and a half months. Brett's the nicest and sweetest guy I've ever met. But then one of my friends(snoopy as she is) found out that he lied to me. I just got done with a relationship where my boyfriend broke my trust completely when I met Brett. He made me trust him so much. I thought he was the one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life and we had sex. We both had said we were virgins. Then my friend told me she found out from someone that he was lying. She didnt just get it from one person but from many. Most of them just said he had a bad reputation. I asked him about it twice and he said no and was really hurt. I felt bad but when I asked him about it I told him one of the guys that said he was lying was his friend. Suppossedly, his name was Ryan and he was on Brett's track team. Brett said he didnt have a Ryan on his track team. But then my friend(she still didnt trust him)looked at the track roster and it had a Ryan on it. I know he lied about that because the guy knew my name and everything we've done together. I dont know if I should trust him but I really want to. He's never done anything like this in the past. My friend Annie told me to just trust him until you have proof, other then people talking. I know now that thats what I want to do but after we got in a fight he wont talk to me. I emailed him instead of calling because i thought hed still be mad and told him that when he wanted to talk about it he could call. He hasnt called and it's been five days. I've tried calling him and he's never home. I've emailed him but he never emails or calls me back. I really want this to work cause I love him so much. And I really do think he's telling the truth because when we had sex he really didnt look like he knew what he was doing. I really love him and I dont mean to be mean but he couldnt even put it in me and I had to help him. My friend said maybe he's just a really good actor but he did look really embarrassed and when we were done he said he was glad he lost his virginity to me and he lokked really sincere. So I am going to believe him because either I love him or I'm just stupid. But what I really need advice on is how to get him to know I trust him. (Thanx for reading this, it's really long lol) :)
*Michele

Regardless, you can't force him to call or email. All you can do is make your piece with an email and hope for the best. Eventually you will have to move on.
Maybe this is something you can learn from if you didn't confront him in the most appropriate way.