Please help my relationship

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2007
Please help my relationship
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Fri, 06-22-2007 - 11:08am
Ok me and my fiance have been together for four years. We finally set are wedding date for August of this year. It seems like the closer it gets the bigger ass he becomes. We both work for the same company that my brother owns. He is suppose to call him for jobs but instead he calls me and if I dont give him the right answer he gets all pissy with me. I cook and clean and do all the laundry and if I ask for help he says that he works harder than me. What is up with that? I love him death and would do anything for him. But could I be making a mistake by marring him. I have needed contacts for two months and everytime we get extra money he spends it on something else. He gets something all the time and dont. I feel like im walkting on egg shells. I dont ever get to invite any of my family or friends over because he always has some excuse. What do I need to do? Ok one more thing. This morning getting ready for work. I woke up early so that I could take a shower and fix my hair. Soon as I got out of the shower and got dress he asked me to get him some clothes like I do every morning. Well I happen to get the wrong shirt and he gets all pissy. He said all your worried about is your hair. What the heck was his problem? Why cant he get his own clothes is he dont like what I get!!!!! Im going insane!!!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 3:10pm

Hi nevaeh123,


Time to take him for a walk and spell out the issues....give specifics, don't do it in anger.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 5:33pm
I would think about premartial counseling. It could be that he is stressed about the wedding or something. Sit down and talk to him about things and tell him that you are concerned and want to work through this. Good luck to you.
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