Please someone give me advice bfore i am
Find a Conversation
Please someone give me advice bfore i am
| Thu, 10-18-2007 - 7:42pm |
I met my fiance 16 months ago. We met in July 2006 and we were engage by March 2007 and wedding plans started the date May 3rd the problem. I am, not sure I want get married now even though I push to get engage then he wanted me to move in with him in April. So I moved in tired of driving 4 hours a day . Both of tired of driving to see each other so in love we were. or I thought but this summer his colors came out and didn't like What I seen now I want out but I cant get out since I am not financially stable. I just started to work and I am still in school. I think I am pregnant again after I had a 2 miscarriages in the past few months no good are birth control. We were both living in Connecticut and I had to move home due to emergency throwing me in debt losing my job and moving. He moved home,e shortly to Philly me York PA He had a tumor and had to be remove he couldn't work till march draining both our account since I wasn't working I went to school figure I needed to do something. I

What you are essentially telling me is that this great guy is also saying and doing things which absolutely do not work for you. Am I right about that? Be authentic and clear with that. At least be clear to yourself. And perhaps with him. And if you need to back up your clarity with real consequences -- like leaving, for instance -- then you have that very difficult choice in front of you. Many people come to think that they cannot choose between a commitment with one person because the other person they are attracted to has some of the qualities they want, but neither has all the qualities. This usually indicates that you are in fact not truly ready to commit to anyone. Unfortunately, this will get even more complicated by going ahead and marrying this person, because that will usually not work until you are truly able to settle down for one and only one. That's something that shifts inside a person, and it is not really a function of finding the "right" person, by the way. You need to make some clear choices.
Welcome to the board sexysvelez,
You like someone else?
Welcome to the board sexysvelez,
Do not get married to him. You don't want to marry him and you like someone else. If you do marry him, you won't be happy and will probably end up divorced.
Talk to your family and see if you can move back in with them, until you get back on your feet again.
glitter-graphics.com