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| Fri, 03-19-2004 - 1:53pm |
I've been dating a great guy from 8 months where we have been seeing eachother regularly on weekends and ussually once or twice a week.
Last weekend, he made plans for Saturday with a friend, and didn't really let me know till right before. I was alittle upset but more for the short notice, because I would have made other plans.
Well he just calls me at work to see if I want to go to the movies tonight -- I said, no why don't we go tomorrow (Saturday), because I have to work late tnight and it's just too rushed to go after work on Friday. He said "oh I think Jeff wants to rent movies".
I'm sick to my stomach, mad and very anxious right now. I'm I overreacting? Being paranoid that I am getting that brush off?
I want to know if I should say something tonight, I want to say something, but I don't what to sound possessive when I say it.
Should I just relax and deal with it or is this a warning sign he wants space?
What should I say tonight??
Thank you so much -- Amy

Carrie
Honestly, I think that this nothing more than him wanting to hang out with his freinds every now and then and unless it becomes a daily thing, is harmless. I would look at it as giving you some personal time to yourself to get things done, or hang with your own freinds. You can possibly make someone else happy untill you take the time to do the same for yourself...sometimes, that means taking some time alone.
Try not to take it personnal, but rather look at as your B.F's way of keeping you guys tight... Note though: there is a difference between taking an occational night out with guys/girls and constantley flaking on you at teh last minute..
best wishes,