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| Tue, 03-30-2004 - 3:31pm |
Okay,
I absolutely hate that my boyfriend masturbates to porn. I told him how it makes me feel months ago and he threw it all out (w/o me asking or anything), but he's back to it again. and he didnt tell me. We never ever fight and we had our first fight in almost 4 years about this. I feel silly arguing but i really really hate this. He claims he doesnt think about those women while we're making love but i find it hard to believe. He also claims that he uses the pixx as stimulus then pictures me when he's masturbating...i figure if that was true he could just picture me in his mind and not need the porn.
I absolutely hate that my boyfriend masturbates to porn. I told him how it makes me feel months ago and he threw it all out (w/o me asking or anything), but he's back to it again. and he didnt tell me. We never ever fight and we had our first fight in almost 4 years about this. I feel silly arguing but i really really hate this. He claims he doesnt think about those women while we're making love but i find it hard to believe. He also claims that he uses the pixx as stimulus then pictures me when he's masturbating...i figure if that was true he could just picture me in his mind and not need the porn.
Am I being too irrational or unfair? I hate arguing with him but I also hate feeling like he needs these other people to get off. I feel like i'm not enough.
Any thoughts or advice?
Mind you, he's 26, i'm 22 and we're about to move in together.
Thanks
