Porn is killing us

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2005
Porn is killing us
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Tue, 03-27-2007 - 6:26pm

Hi Everyone, I have a great relationship with a man whom I love with all my heart. We have been together for almost one year. We have always had issues with sex, not staying erect, cant ejaculate and so on. I would always comfort him because I didn't want him to start to get insecure. When we met I knew he enjoyed watching porn once in a while, which I was okay with, looking never really bothered me. I enjoy watching porn with my man if the relationship is heathy. Aside from all that, I started finding his clothing in the den along with other things...I started to see a red flag but just kind of sat back. I seen more and more of it..and finally told him. I was uncomfortable with what he was doing and it needed to stop and that I believe the reasons we have problems

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 7:07pm

Welcome to the board faith432 -


This is not about you not being able to please him, although I know that's how it seems.


Here's something for you to read:


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlcouplescou/?msg=7864.7


Just because he's USED to porn, without help, nothing is

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2005
Wed, 03-28-2007 - 1:00pm

Should I be posting this on another board. I just need some advise. I did read through the threads you sent me to.


Thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 03-28-2007 - 1:13pm

Hi Faith,


You can post on either board, on the other though, you might get more support and suggestions as they have been through what you are going through.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2005
Wed, 03-28-2007 - 1:20pm

Hi its me again...which one would you recommend?


thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 03-28-2007 - 1:30pm
I don't go to either board, but you can post on both boards, there is no rule against that.