Porn is killing us
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| Tue, 03-27-2007 - 6:26pm |
Hi Everyone, I have a great relationship with a man whom I love with all my heart. We have been together for almost one year. We have always had issues with sex, not staying erect, cant ejaculate and so on. I would always comfort him because I didn't want him to start to get insecure. When we met I knew he enjoyed watching porn once in a while, which I was okay with, looking never really bothered me. I enjoy watching porn with my man if the relationship is heathy. Aside from all that, I started finding his clothing in the den along with other things...I started to see a red flag but just kind of sat back. I seen more and more of it..and finally told him. I was uncomfortable with what he was doing and it needed to stop and that I believe the reasons we have problems

Welcome to the board faith432 -
This is not about you not being able to please him, although I know that's how it seems.
Here's something for you to read:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlcouplescou/?msg=7864.7
Just because he's USED to porn, without help, nothing is
Should I be posting this on another board. I just need some advise. I did read through the threads you sent me to.
Thanks
Hi Faith,
You can post on either board, on the other though, you might get more support and suggestions as they have been through what you are going through.
Hi its me again...which one would you recommend?
thanks