problems....

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problems....
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Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:24am

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Edited 9/29/2007 2:47 pm ET by prettymissmami
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Fri, 09-28-2007 - 11:27am

Welcome to the board prettymissmami,


In my opinion I don't think this sounds like a healthy relationship. You don't trust him, you have hit him, said there was abuse, and he goes out all the time.


You never said anyting good about the relationship.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 12:06pm

This is definitely not healthy.

You are both feeding off one another's abusive behavior. Taking swipes at him is abuse whether you managed to hit him or not. You need to be away from one another, and strongly consider anger management and/or therapy to help you communicate effectively. The consequence of not doing this will be to continue having relationships in which you lash out physically at someone when you are unable to control your anger.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 1:12pm

Welcome to the board prettymissmami,


Ask your doctor for a referral to a counselor and start working on you.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:26pm

You can love someone and know that you can not have a healthy relationship with them.


'we're trying to work out things for our son's sake'


What, proactively, are you doing for your son? Are you in anger management classes? Are you in therapy, couples counseling? Are you taking parenting classes together? Are you two reading informative couples help books? Things aren't going to work out for themselves, especially with the stress of a child around.