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Registered: 05-26-2006
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Wed, 04-18-2007 - 7:05pm
if a guy asks a girl to tell him what turns her on is she supposed to? how does that affect the relationship? should she confess that she dreams about having sex with him?
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Registered: 09-19-2002
In reply to: melgoofo
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 7:09pm

A girl should do what she feels most comfortable doing: either answering or not answering.

Depends on the maturity level of the people in question.

She doesn't HAVE TO, but if she wants to she can.

What's this about anyway?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: melgoofo
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 8:58pm
If your dreams are of him, absolutely tell him if he asks, is free of another relationship, you are free of another relationship, and you are interested.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: melgoofo
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 6:13am

I have a slightly different take on this, because we don't have much info here. Some guys just like to talk about sex, and they will ask personal questions of this kind before there is any kind of a relationship. If that is the case, don't tell, and change the subject (unless you want to have a conversation about what turns you on, of course). I would also avoid telling this guy about dreaming of having sex with him--talk about stroking his ego!

If you are actually in a relationship, however, going out together, enjoying shared activities, and having sex, then yes, definitely tell him how to satisfy you, and share your dreams with him if you wish.