R There Any Happy Endings?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2004
R There Any Happy Endings?
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Sat, 05-01-2004 - 11:48am
I just thought I'd ask. It seems like everyone inthis section are having problems. They have either been dumped, or are sad because something went wrong.

I'm in a boat with no oars right now. I have the pleasure of waking up and dying all over again when I realize it's not a dream that my best friend/ lover has decided to leave what we had.

I'm just wondering if anyone, might still read the boards that actually had a happy ending to their nightmare? It would just be nice to hear that sometimes they do come back and you can have that "Fairy Tale" after all.




iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2003
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 1:38pm

well this IS a board that people come to for help with their relationship problems, so i would assume that most people come here with their problems. i think that when you say "are there any happy endings" i guess it depends what you would consider a 'happy ending'. divorce or break ups are not always bad, or sad. sometimes its what is needed at that particular time. and 'staying together' and working thru a problem is not always the bed of roses that people think, either.


altho i am currently going thru a divorce, and in the past i posted alot about my own issues with my marriage, i must say that i have never been happier than i am right now. sometimes a break up can be used as a journey of self discover, and even tho it can be painful ---- if you learn to learn from your experiences, you come out ahead of the game.


just my two cents.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2004
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 4:51pm
I am not in your shoes, so it is hard to understand but What happened? You sound as though you may need to talk.