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Re: my post on husband online affair.
| Thu, 09-23-2004 - 11:05pm |
Thank you for your posts, I agree marriage counsling is probably the right way to go, He actually mentioned that after we had the fight about this.
I was reading doodlebug's reply and she mentioned that I went from saying I am happy to saying I was upset.. I guess that is a little strange for me to say that I am happy but not at the same time.. duh me LOL.
I did want to point out, that when I met my husband on line, and he was still with his girlfriend we never once even flirted with each other while they were together, We also didn't start seeing each other till almost 2 months after they split up, I also do know for a fact she did treat him like crap and she cheated on him, I know through their mutal friends and his family. We were truly just friends online, we talked about things like the weather, work, things like that.
You are so right though I need closure, it would make me feel better, I just feel so betrayed, and stupid for walking around like everything was ok thinking I was immune to letting this happen. Another thing is you are also very right, he didn't sleep with her, I thought of that, the fact that she lives 1000 miles or so away makes me a little more at ease, My husband is the type that isn't very romantic I know for a fact if this person lived within driving distance he wouldn't of gotton so "close" to her, he just can't say things to people's face that is romantic that he could eaisly say over the internet. She was also almost 20 years 0lder than him, I know it is easy to enjoy someone's company on the internet, but he took it just too far. I will forgive but it will be harder to forget. I want to move on, I think what we have together has only gotton stronger through this, But like all the good advice you all gave me we still need counsling.
I was reading doodlebug's reply and she mentioned that I went from saying I am happy to saying I was upset.. I guess that is a little strange for me to say that I am happy but not at the same time.. duh me LOL.
I did want to point out, that when I met my husband on line, and he was still with his girlfriend we never once even flirted with each other while they were together, We also didn't start seeing each other till almost 2 months after they split up, I also do know for a fact she did treat him like crap and she cheated on him, I know through their mutal friends and his family. We were truly just friends online, we talked about things like the weather, work, things like that.
You are so right though I need closure, it would make me feel better, I just feel so betrayed, and stupid for walking around like everything was ok thinking I was immune to letting this happen. Another thing is you are also very right, he didn't sleep with her, I thought of that, the fact that she lives 1000 miles or so away makes me a little more at ease, My husband is the type that isn't very romantic I know for a fact if this person lived within driving distance he wouldn't of gotton so "close" to her, he just can't say things to people's face that is romantic that he could eaisly say over the internet. She was also almost 20 years 0lder than him, I know it is easy to enjoy someone's company on the internet, but he took it just too far. I will forgive but it will be harder to forget. I want to move on, I think what we have together has only gotton stronger through this, But like all the good advice you all gave me we still need counsling.
Thank you all
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