Really done or on punishment?
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Really done or on punishment?
| Mon, 04-21-2008 - 9:04am |
Here's my question, I have posted before about this but now I am really wondering if we are done or is he punishing me for what I did. Been seeing this man for about 7 months now and last Wednesday I called him up and gave him crap for making plans with someone else (friend) when he said days

I think the best way to 'fix' this situation is to leave him alone. Stop calling him, texting him, etc. I think he's probably still quite upset at your over reaction from the previous week. Calling him and texting him may irritate him further. You've apologized and that's all you need to do. Leave the ball in his court. I would give him a week or so with no contact. If he contacts you that's fine, but don't try to reach him. His actions are showing you he wants space. Let him have it for awhile. Once a week or so goes by, things will probably cool down and you can try to have a conversation about what has happened and decide where to go from there.
Good luck!