Really need some strong advice.
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|Tue, 06-03-2003 - 11:58am|
My ex and I have had one child - born in 2001. We have tried to work out the kinks in our relationship several times but each time we end up splitting up. He is a reformed addict and for that I am very proud of him. I am over the past but it seems that we have been arguing for so long, we don't know how else to deal with each other.
Every few weeks, I start to have feelings for him. Then they pass. Then they come back. I do not know why, nor am I sure what my heart is trying to tell me...am I supposed to be with him? We do have a child together and we are both very much involved in the child's life. He recentlt told me that he is still in love with me and bought me an engagement ring. I told him we were better as friends. We just split up 2 months ago. Now I am starting to want him back again. My issue is, I don't know if I want him for life. I know that sounds petty but I can't explain it.
I think he and I could be great together if we could just focus on US and our families were not involved. Due to financial woes, I had to move home with our child, and my family members are very resentful of him.
He recently bought a home and has asked me to help him decorate it - I agreed. I am hoping that we can be alone in the new house and perhaps over time we can work out the kinks. He has no idea that I feel this way. I don't plan to tell him right away.
Should I say anything or wait?