Reason why he should stay

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2004
Reason why he should stay
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Sun, 10-17-2004 - 8:04pm
He needs a good reason (and not that I love him)why he should keep our relationship and not end it. I truly love him but I have hurt him (lies/denying his love..)and he wants out. He loves me but is trying not to, he is in the middle of giving himself good reason why he shouldn't move on without me. I need advice, everything that I have been doing for him (showing I love him, being there..etc doesn't seem valid enough for him)I don't want to lose him, he is what I have been looking for all my life. I need a good reason why he shouldn't end this..help!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-26-2004
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 10:45pm
You should not have to convince a person to stay with you... If he loved you, he would want to work things out.

What does he expect you to say??? All a woman can say to a man is "I love you. I want us to work on our problems and be a better couple"

I don't know what lies you were telling and how severe they were... were you cheating on him? were you lying about stupid things?

That would help me answer your post a little better if I knew the reasons why he is considering leaving.