Nothing can give you security when your husband threatens divorce. How can you be happy or content when he's frequently threatening to walk out? Impossible.
You've got to address the cause of the issues (the way you fight and what you're fighting about) rather than trying to learn to live with the symptoms (him threatening to leave).
It would help if you tell us what's going on with his mother. We may have some constructive advice for you. What is his view of the situation and what is your view? Please try and present his side of the argument with as much detail as you present your own.
Nothing can give you security when your husband threatens divorce. How can you be happy or content when he's frequently threatening to walk out? Impossible.
You've got to address the cause of the issues (the way you fight and what you're fighting about) rather than trying to learn to live with the symptoms (him threatening to leave).
It would help if you tell us what's going on with his mother. We may have some constructive advice for you. What is his view of the situation and what is your view? Please try and present his side of the argument with as much detail as you present your own.
I will give you the short version of what is going on with his mother.